Communications Insight For More Inspiring Leaders What Does It Take To Hold A Room?

What Does It Take To Hold A Room?

 9th Mar 2023
 
 
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What does it take to hold a room?

As in "really" hold it?

Immaculate scripting...? Non.

Carefully honed, deliberate gestures...? Nein.

Charging on stage to the sound of "Gangnam Style" before punching the ceiling...? I certainly hope not. At least, it never worked for me.

What it DOES take, in my experience, is a combination of the following - that you be:


Completely present. IN the room. With your audience.

Crystal clear on your intentions: for THEM.

Certain of the value of what you're communicating: for THEM.

Willing to put to one side the fear of "getting it wrong".

Conversing with your audience, rather than spouting at them.

A human being not an out loud script.

Prepared to show how you FEEL about your content, not just what you THINK about it.

Open to vulnerability where appropriate.

Willing to get personal - because it's ALWAYS personal.

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Do these ideas imply emotional risk?

Absolutely.

But there's always risk.

A presentation that's 100% risk-free is the #presentation that's never delivered.

Embrace the discomfort.

Cut loose.

And go get 'em...

#stage #publicspeaking #communication #leadership

 I was recently promoted into a role where public speaking and inspiring people has become more central to my ability to be effective. I was amazed by how effective just one session was. I heard indirectly that my presentation had been particularly inspirational - one person even contacted the Director of my organisation to say how impressed he had been. Without any exaggeration, I give all this credit to Simon.

 

Esther Stevenson | Former Head of Africa, Christian Aid

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